4 strategies for staying motivated

4 strategies for staying motivated

How do I stay motivated?

This is one of the most common questions we get asked.

Most of us feel highly motivated when we start something new--a new workout program, a new diet.

But inevitably, we reach a point where we're just not that into it. The novelty wears off, our schedule changes, we get a rough night of sleep...you name it.

We might even beat ourselves up, thinking, "Other people are motivated all the time. What's wrong with me?"

The truth is, there's nothing wrong with you. Accomplishing big goals has very little to do with feeling motivated all the time.

Motivation is what gets you started. After that, it's about doing what needs to be done until you eventually get where you want to be.

Motivation may return periodically, but it's never guaranteed. It's like any other emotion (happiness, sadness, etc) and will come and go throughout your journey. You can take advantage of it while it's around but you can not rely on it for success.

So if you can't rely on motivation to always be there, what can you do to ensure you remain consistent and focused during your journey?

Here are four strategies to help!

1. Have a deep reason and a strong WHY

Your why for embarking on your journey is what will keep you going through the tough days. 

Each of us needs a why that cuts directly to our core--something we can turn to on the days where we just don't want to complete that workout or when it would be easier to get fast food than cook at home.

When you're determining your deepest why, there's an exercise you can use. It's called The "5 Whys," and it was originally used by the Toyota Motor Corporation.

It's very simple. When you want to accomplish something, you ask one "why." Why do I want to accomplish this?

Then, whatever answer you come up with, ask why again. And so on, five times.

Be really honest with your responses. When you reach that final "why", you might be surprised at the answer!

2. You don't need motivation--you need systems

Let's dive into the next thing you'll need to stay consistent on your journey (without relying on motivation): systems.

Systems (you can also think of them as habits) help you prioritize what to do and when to do it. They also remove a lot of the effort and willpower you think are required to get things done.

3. Don't let feelings drive behavior

When you're tired or sad, do you every feel like you should do tired, sad things? This is totally n ormal. And of course, it's critical to honor and express your feelings because it's a release and helps other understand what you're going through.

But when it comes to sticking with a nutrition or fitness program, letting your feelings drive your decisions can get you in trouble. For example, if you had a bad day at work and let those feelings drive you toward choosing chocolate for dinner, that may not be conducive to your goals!

Notice and accepts your feelings the same way you can notice a cloud passing overhead.

Our moment-to-moment feelings don't have to determine who we are or what we choose to do. Simply knowing this can make it easier to carry on when we don't feel like it.

4. Have a growth mindset and see life as a series of skills you can learn

Rather than beating yourself up abotu the fact that youhaven't yet reached your goals, try this strategy: add the word "yet" to the end of your sentences.

For example:

"I haven't reached my goal weight yet."

"I haven't been consistent yet."

Adding the word "yet" to those sentences gives them a sense of resilience. Where you are in life right now doesn't dictate where you'll be in 3 months, 6 months, or a year.

Resilient people don't just "try harder" or "have more willpower." Resilient people see any process as a skill that can be developed.

You may have also heard of a "Growth vs Fixed mindset."

People who have a growth mindset believe their talents can be developed thorugh hard work. People with a fixed mindset believe their talents are innate gifts.

Research suggests that people with a growth mindset achieve more than those with a fixed mindset because they worry less about looking smart and put more energy into learning.

Here is an example:

  • Fixed mindset: "I'll never be able to follow my nutrition plan on the weekend."
  • Growth mindset: "In the past, when I've tried to stick to my nutrition plan on the weekend, I didn't have much success but I am learning and getting better every week."

What do you think--can you spot any "fixed mindset" examples in yourself? How could you reframe your language towards a growth mindset?


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